The Solo Ager’s Move:
Navigating Transitions Without a Safety Net

😎Who is the Solo Ager?

Solo agers are older adults who do not have immediate family, or who have outlived or become distanced from those who might otherwise help. They may be single, widowed, child-free, or have adult children living far away.

SoloAgers make up 28% of people who are 65 and older…this is a large body of our population. Many solo agers have built lives of independence and self-reliance, but as time goes on, the absence of a support network can make life’s big transitions—like moving—uniquely challenging.

Let’s face it, life has demands and as we age we could use a bit of assistance in some matters.

What Do Solo Agers Face?
As solo agers, you might find yourself solely responsible for every aspect of a home sale and move:

  • Sorting and packing a lifetime of belongings

  • Arranging repairs and cleaning

  • Navigating legal and financial paperwork

  • Making decisions about where to go next

  • Managing logistics with movers, utilities, and service providers

  • Handling the emotional weight of leaving a long-time home—often alone

It’s a truism that sometimes 2 heads are better than one. I am someone who qualifies as a solo-ager and I’m sensitive to the stressors and headaches that come with many issues while not having family or significant friends around me. ..however, as much as I prefer my quiet life, it’s still good to bounce ideas off someone else.

And for many of us without family or close friends to step in, even small tasks can feel overwhelming. It’s easy to feel isolated or unsure where to start.

👉Why Is This Such a Challenge?

  • Physical limitations: Tasks like lifting, cleaning, or repairs may not be safe or possible.

  • Emotional stress: Letting go of a family home without a support system can be deeply emotional.

  • Decision fatigue: There are many choices to make, often under time pressure.

  • Risk of exploitation: Solo agers can be vulnerable to scams or untrustworthy service providers.

  • Lack of advocacy: There’s no one to “have your back” or help you sort through complex decisions.

🦸How a CSA-Trained Broker Can Help

This is where a Certified Senior Advisor (CSA) real estate broker steps in as far more than a salesperson. A CSA broker is specially trained to understand the unique needs, concerns, and vulnerabilities of older adults—especially those aging solo. Here’s how they can help:

  • Resource Coordinator:
    Your CSA broker has a network of trusted professionals—organizers, packers, repair contractors, estate sale managers, movers, cleaners—who are vetted and experienced with seniors. They can arrange services and oversee projects so you don’t have to manage every detail.

  • Personal Advocate:
    A CSA broker listens to your priorities and concerns, helping you make informed decisions at every step. They’ll explain all your options, protect your interests, and watch out for you in negotiations or transactions.

  • Step-by-Step Planner:
    They’ll break the process into manageable tasks, create a realistic timeline, and keep things moving forward—so nothing falls through the cracks.

  • Emotional Support:
    Moving can be lonely and emotional, especially for solo agers. A compassionate CSA broker understands this. They’ll offer encouragement, patience, and understanding, recognizing the deep connections you have with your home and belongings.

  • Trusted Guide:
    From preparing your home for sale to closing the deal and settling into your next chapter, your CSA broker will guide you every step of the way. You’ll never have to wonder “what’s next?” or “who can help me with this?”

  • Protection and Peace of Mind:
    With a CSA broker, you have a trustworthy advocate who will protect you from scams, overpriced services, and unnecessary stress. They are committed to your well-being and independence.

😇A Solo Journey—But Not Alone

If you’re a solo ager facing a move, remember:
You don’t have to do this alone. With the right help, you can reduce stress, avoid costly mistakes, and move forward with greater confidence and support. A CSA broker isn’t just a real estate agent—they’re your partner, your advocate, and your guide through this important transition.

Reach out and take the first step. Your next chapter can be manageable, safe, and even empowering—with the right person at your side.

Jeremy Hickling / CSA®, Broker, CAPS
Certified Senior Advisor & Real Estate Transition Specialist
📞 425.894.4316
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